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Volume 2 - Number 4

Not Just Talk!
The newsletter that 'walks the talk' about getting more from your
Untapped Potential - at work and in life.

4qtr2004 Issue - What's Inside?

What's in an A.C.R.O.N.Y.M.?
At Home: How Do You Show You Care?
Ask the Coach
Great Things I Didn't Say!
What's News at GottaGettaCoach!
GottaGettaBlog! Weblog Posts
3-Click Challenge
Administrivia


What's in an A.C.R.O.N.Y.M.?

I've come to realize something about myself - I really do like acronyms. They're really helpful in explaining/remembering things. In the article I just submitted to the ASTD - the American Society of Training and Development - I even included with a few choice new ones. ("ASTD", of course, is a special kind acronym, called an 'initialism', or an acronym formed from initial letters.) When the article is published, I'll be sure to put a link to it in my weblog.    

Someone suggested that I should create an acronym for the word ... acronym. But in doing my research, I found that many have traveled this path before me, as the following sampling indicates:

  • ACRONYM - A Clever Re-Organization Nudges Your Memory

  • ACRONYM - A Concise Recollection of Nomenclature Yielding Mnemonics

  • ACRONYM - A Cross Reference Of Notes Yielding Messages

  • ACRONYM - Abbreviated Coded Rendition Of Name Yielding Meaning

  • ACRONYM - Alphabetical Character Rendition Of a Name Yielding a Meaning

  • ACRONYM - Alphabetically Coded Reminder of Names You Misremember

  • ACRONYM - Alphanumeric Code for Remembering Odd Names You Make up

  • ACRONYM - A Contrived Reduction Of Nouns Yielding Mnemonics

  • ACRONYM - Abbreviation by CROpping Names that Yields Meaning

Yet in reading through these, I was inspired to still make one up myself that was more in the spirit of the Not Just Talk! heading, that is, getting more from your Untapped Potential. So here's what I came up with:

  • ACRONYM - Anyone Can Retain what's Optimum in a New-York-Minute

So, as we're officially inside 4qrt2004, I invite you to focus on what it is that YOU want to retain by using this three-step process:

Step One - Remember

Looking back, ask yourself the following: What did you do that helped certain things turn out particularly well this year? What were your Lessons Learned from the things that didn't go as planned? Write down your answers - thoughtfully and honestly - even if it's only in note-form. If you do this, you'll find you've developed a fairly good roadmap for your future success - simply do MORE of what worked, and LESS or what didn't work. There's another critical step, though - one that most people forget to do. That's why there's more than just one step to this two-step process.

Step Two - Remember to Remember

It sounds redundant, but it's really not. And anyone who's ever been coached by me can attest to the importance of remembering what it is you want to remember. You see most people forget what they want to remember. That's why they end up making so many of the same mistakes over and over (and over) again. Vernon Sanders Law said, "Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterwards." The thing is, though, if you don't learn the lesson - and don't remember the lesson - there's no alternative but to re-test you! Over and over (and over) again. The choice is yours.

Step Three - Create your own Acronym

This is where you tie it all together. Pick a 3-, or 4-letter word that exemplifies what you hope to achieve and use its letters to form a reminder of what it is you want to remember to remember so that you can remember it. Something like R.E.A.L. (React Eagerly to All Learning), or T.R.Y. (Take Responsibility for Your actions), or H.O.S.T. (Help Others Succeed Today), etc. Get the idea?

Anyone really Can Retain what's Optimum in a New-York Minute. You just have to remember to remember  the A.C.R.O.N.Y.M. for it!


At Home: How Do You Show You Care?

Kevin Roberts, CEO of Saatchi & Saatchi - the company that helps Toyota, Proctor & Gamble, Sony, and Pepsi, among others develop their brands - recently wrote a book called lovemarks: the future beyond brands. (The idea is that brands need to be something we don't just recognize, but actually love.) I thought that many of his ideas about how to make brands more lovable apply to people in their relationships, too. See if you don't agree:

  • Commit to total commitment

  • Make it easy

  • Don't hide

  • Tell the truth

  • Nurture integrity

  • Accept responsibility

  • Deserve trust

  • Never, ever fail the reliability test


Ask the Coach

Question: I know I need to do a better job of networking, but I'm just not good at it. What can you recommend? 

Answer: In her book called, How to Work a Room, Susan Roane suggests these seven steps to maximize your time (and effort) at networking events, whether it's a cocktail party, a dinner meeting, a conference or seminar, a career fair, or something similar:

  1. Adopt a Positive Attitude - You owe it to yourself to be your best and not let a foul mood foul things up for you.

  2. Focus on the Benefits of the Event - Know why you are attending; set goals for yourself.

  3. Plan your Self-Introduction - Use it to tell people who you are and to give them a glimpse of what it's like to know you.

  4. Check your Business Cards - They are how people will remember you the next day. Don't leave home without them!

  5. Prepare your Small Talk - Having three or four pieces of small talk at-the-ready will help you feel more confident and at ease.

  6. Remember Eye Contact and a Smile - Warmth and sincerity still go a long way when breaking the ice.

  7. Practice your Handshake - You'd be surprised by how many people still can't shake hands well.

"Taking the time to 'be prepared' can be the best investment you make," she says. I most definitely agree.


Great Things I Didn't Say!

  • "He that is good at making excuses is seldom good at anything else." - Benjamin Franklin

  • "Thinking is the hardest work there is, which is the probable reason why so few engage in it." - Henry Ford

  • "We are wiser than we know." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

  • "Life is like a trumpet. If you don't put anything into it, you don't get anything out of it." - W.C. Handy

  • "The only place success comes before work is in the dictionary." - May Smith

  • "Not failure, but low aim, is crime." - James Russell Lowell


What's News at GottaGettaCoach!?

  • Barry Zweibel was interviewed for an article on life coaching in The Greenville Journal, a metropolitan community weekly magazine from Greenville, South Carolina.

  • Hondu.com, a "communication skills portal," posted a version of a favorite Barry Zweibel article, Manage Your Boss Effectively.

  • Barry Zweibel was quoted in the Chicago Sun Times newspaper on the topic of charisma in an article called, Breaking down Obama.

  • The Online Consultancy Network? posted Being a Better Boss: Shifting your Perspectives, an article written by Barry Zweibel.

  • Barry Zweibel was quoted in the Indianapolis Star newspaper in an article called Change Means Sometimes Having to Say Goodbye.

  • How to Let Your Coach Go Without Feeling Like a "Jerk", an article by Barry Zweibel, was published by the Association of Coaching & Consulting Professionals on the Web.

  • Barry Zweibel was asked to participate in a research study being conducted at the U. of Nebraska as one of 20 experts/theorists in the field of executive coaching.

  • GottaGettaCoach! participated in the Better Business Bureau's ID Theft protection program.


GottaGettaBlog! Weblog Posts

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3-Click Challenge

Congratulations to Amanda King. Thanks to the 3-Click Challenge, she's earned a month of pre-paid coaching! (More on the 3-Click Challenge.)


Administrivia

This edition of Not Just Talk! was written and created by Barry Zweibel, professional certified life coach, certified executive coach, and president of GottaGettaCoach!, Incorporated. GottaGettaCoach! specializes in helping people create the kind of success and satisfaction they so richly deserve - in business and life - by helping them better utilize their Untapped Potential.

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