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Other Names for The "Gremlin"

Many of you are, no doubt, familiar with Richard Carson's book, Taming Your Gremlin. Carson defines the Gremlin as that 'narrator in your head." My question to you is this: What other names do you - or those you know - use to refer to the Gremlin?

Thanks to all those who've helped me with this project.

  • One phrase I have fun with and my clients relate to is "The Committee." Often times there is more than one gremlin or multiple issues. Any technique that separates the narration to give the client a different perspective is good... and I like the humor in this one, especially for corporate clients.

  • The Enemy

  • The Aggravator

  • The Assassin

  • Mom!

  • The Inner Editor

  • The Inner Critic

  • The Judge

  • The introjected/introjects (pick your poison for the noun here - could be Mother, Father, Sister, Brother, Teacher, Professor, etc)

  • Your inner voice - the one that tells you 'you're not good enough'

  • Your ego - This is not the Freudian ego, but the spiritual ego or darkness.

  • Dad :-)

  • The Shadow

  • Lambchop - 'Cuz it reminds me of Sherri Lewis' puppet that was always talking back!!! :-)

  • Monkey mind (from Maria Nemeth's book The Energy of Money)

  • VOJ - Voice of Judgment (from a book called Creativity in Business)

  • Beezer - cuz he never lets you be

  • The Talking Head

  • The Idiot in the House (from Faulkner)

  • B*tch

  • Shut up! Although that is more of a response to the "The Voice"

  • My clients and I always select names - for example; I had a client from the South of the US that always heard in her head that she shouldn't work, that she shouldn't be a vp that was a mans job, that she should have make up on, wear a dress etc. So we spoke to "The Southern Belle".

  • Another client named theirs "Godzilla"

  • One of my all time client favorites is "public enemy number one"

  • Self-talk

  • Inner dialogue

  • Supraconsciousness - Some say "superconsciousness" since they are at the point of transiting higher yet.

  • Automatic thoughts

  • "ME"

  • In Jewish tradition that "evil" voice in the head is called "Yetzer Hora" which is translated as the evil inclination - the desire to lead us away from what we should be doing. This is not only about choosing from good and evil (although that is the most blatant example) but the Yetzer Hora is often dressed up in the garments of complete righteousness. So for example when there are two options, each would be a good thing but in reality one will lead you away from your more important task...

  • Inner Critic (see Hal and Sidra Stone's Embracing Your Inner Critic)

  • Monkey Mind (see Guatama Buddha and his followers....)

  • The Judge Within (see Byron Brown's Soul without Shame)

  • Shadow Selves, Dark Side (see David Richo's Shadow Dance)

  • The Swamp Thing (see John Davis's The Diamond Approach: an Introduction to the Teachings of A.H. Almaas)

  • Trance of Unworthiness/Inner Stories (see Tara Brach's Radical Acceptance)

  • Shadow Artists, Poisonous Playmates, Crazymakers (see Julia Cameron's The Artist's Way)

  • "Aunt Alma"

  • Self-Serving Attitudes

  • Unproductive Cliques

  • Grumbling

  • Scapegoating

  • Unnecessary Sick Leave

  • Wasted Time

  • Mediocre Job Performance

  • Employee Turnover

  • The tapes or voices in your head

  • I often use the term "Censor." (I picked this up from Julia Cameron in The Artist's Way.)

  • Those Silent Conversations

  • The Hum of the Machinery

  • My name is Pat, so I refer to it as "WPAT, all Pat, all the time, 24 hours-commercial free". For you, I might call it WBZ. It's a fun way to name the narrator. Clients seem to get it and enjoy it.

  • negative narrator

  • chattering monkey

  • lower self

  • The Guardian

  • grey dog (as opposed to "white dog" of higher self).

  • Saboteur

  • N.I.C.E. - Needy, Insecure, Cautious, Exploited (or Exploitable)

  • In the UK this year the image of a gremlin has been used in a TV and poster campaign to encourage people to improve their literacy and numeric skills. They are followed by this ugly creature all the time who makes himself known to them when want to read a bed time story and can't or try and avoid doing a task at work because they don't have the skills they need. This campaign has not been very well liked by basic skills tutors who wonder if it is the right way to encourage already frightened people into seeking help.

  • And after "Lord of the Rings" some of my clients are using the Gollum! Others are using Smeagol.

  • Protector

  • Vulnerability

  • Need for safety

  • Need for connection

  • Frightened inner child

  • the squatter... comes in and invades without invitation, then can't be got rid of.

  • Major General

  • Weasel

  • I like the Asian use of the dragon.

  • In performance and art circles, it's called the Inner Critic. I've also heard it called "tapes".

  • During a presentation I was using the analogy of "hearing voices", in reference to self talk, and that it's common for all of us. One young man said "I have an entire committee in my head and they're all talking at once." So it's important to remember that Gremlins, when gathering, often form committees with a fair amount of dissention!

  • I say the little voice in your head or on your shoulder that you have to firmly say, "Thank you for your input and now I am going to take positive action!"

  • I call it the Critical Voice.

  • The running commentary

  • The "Voice"

  • Babba Yaga --- I ended up dancing with her after she jumped out of the woods to scare me. She cackled, laughed and pointed her finger at me like a "mad" woman saying, "who do you think you are?"

  • Jackal, snarling and barking at me, trying to stop me from taking the next step. He was afraid for me. --- He turned into a beautiful Irish Setter that sits beside me now. Every time he gets afraid, I put my arm around him and draw him close to me to calm and comfort him.

  • Sister Critical

  • Keeper of the status quo

  • Fabricator

  • Resister

  • Guilt Brigade

  • The Terminator

  • The Chatterbox


Or what I sometimes call ...

The "my LESSER self"


So what's does your LESSER self look like?
What does s/he
say over and over again?
And how does that make you
feel?


If you're ready to stand down your LESSER self,
GottaGettaCoach! can help you
with
exactly that.

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Contributors to "Synonyms for the Gremlin"
Thanks, Again!

Jayne Andersen

Ellen Britt, PA, Ed.D.
The Stress Resiliency Coach
http://www.primalwaters.com

Doug J Constant

Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc

Dale Emery
Consultant -- Resistance as a Resource
www.dhemery.com

Julia Ann Ferguson Andriessen
www.coachingforexpats.com

Marion Franklin, MS, MCC
www.lifecoachinggroup.com 

Catherine Franz
www.abundancecenter.com 

Harold Frydman

Pat Graham-Block
http://imaginehavingwealth.com

Dovid Grossman
www.dovidgrossman.com

Donna L. Gunter
Women's Business Coach

www.womenbizcoach.com

Mary Jo Hazard, MS, MCC
Professional Certified Coach
CARPE DIEM Coaching

Meg Herman
www.ManagingHorizons.com

Rose Hill
www.SoloBizVille.com

Dr. Mary Lou Johns
Certified Personal & Professional Coach

Sheila M. Kelly B.A.
Aegis Coaching Services
www.UnleashingTheLeaderWithin.com

Linda Kirchmaier

Robert J. Klein
Crest Training Associates, Inc.

Lyle T. Lachmuth MSOD, CDP, CRT
Professional Coach, Speaker, Author
Turning Point Strategies

John B. Lazar, MCC
www.lazarconsulting.com

Christie Mason
www.managersforum.com 

Pat McCann
McCann Communications
www.mccanncoach.com

Sandy Mitsch, CEO, MCC
Certified Professional Coach
www.rthcoaching.com

Nancy K. Montagna, Ph.D.
www.nancymontagna.com

Nancy Morris
The Kickass Coach with Compassion
http://www.GoalGetterKit.com/system.html

Marcy Nelson-Garrison, president
Coaching Toys Inc.
www.coachingtoys.com 

Susan Parnaby

Chris Peterson

Peg Rowe
Peg Rowe Associates
Consultant, Facilitator and Coach

Sandy Russell, BA, CPCC, CHRP
Sandy Russell Coaching & Consulting
Certified Professional Business & Life Coach

Liz Shaw

Alicia Smith
DISC Ninja
www.aliciasmith.com

Susan Spritz Myers, CPCC, MCC
Certified Professional Coach and Kolbe Specialist
www.susanspritzmyers.com

Karen Szymanski

Bronwyn Thompson, MSc, DipOT
Safe Handling & Musculoskeletal Health Advisor
www.cdhb.govt.nz

Vic Williams
Life Strategist
www.strategicprocess.com
www.spiralwild.com

Katherine Zimmer
Professional Coach & Certified Personal Branding Strategist
www.reachcc.com

and me,

Barry Zweibel, MBA, MCC
GottaGettaCoach!, Inc. (web)
www.ggci-blog.com (blog)
www.ggci.com/newsletter (newsletter)

 


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